ON DEATH
That which comes into this world is
destined to die. Brought into this world we get immersed
in worldly activities, right from childhood to adulthood
and through old age. In the bustle we forget that we
are mortals. But, just as we had no choice in being
born, we have no control over death.
The idea of death gives rise to fear.
It is so today and has been so since life first began.
What probably gives rise to this fear is the unknown
and uncertainty that surrounds death. When, where and
how, no one knows. So we resign ourselves to this fate
saying, "People die, some day I will die too."
Death is a finality. What we need to
do is accept death and by knowing it transcend it, not
overcome it.
Death is also a much-talked about and
discussed topic among philosophers. According to Osho,
we are so afraid of death, that while dying, we willingly
become unconscious. We lapse into unconsciousness shortly
before dying and we die in unconsciousness. We cannot
see our death or even our birth. That is why we do not
realize that life is eternal. No more than a resting
place between the cycles of birth and death where we
discard old clothes and pick up new ones. It is important
to know death, look it into the face and understand
it, because that which we know, we become free of.
Psychological studies have shown how
people react to imminent death, based on experiences
of terminally ill patients. The first universal reaction
on hearing the news is "No!" Then comes denial
– "This can’t be happening to me."
This is followed by anger – towards God, nature
or fate. Then comes the stage when the patient hopes
that God will extend his life or cure him in exchange
for promised behavior. The person then grieves and is
depressed but this is followed by acceptance and the
person comes to terms with himself and with death and
is at peace.
There is birth and there is death.
Some say there is life after death – transmigration
of the soul as the Hindu philosophy says. What the purpose
of life is and what we are here on earth to accomplish
are questions that continue to be asked and each person
reaches his / her own answer. Each person has to seek
his own salvation, bear his own cross.
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